Love is a powerful thing. It can bring joy, connection, and deep meaning to our lives. But sometimes, even when we love someone, we know deep down that the relationship isn’t meant to last forever. That was the painful truth I had to face. I knew the right thing to do was to move on, yet my heart still clings to what was. I still love her. I still care for her. But I trust that letting go is part of God’s plan for both of us.
This journey hasn’t been easy. My heart aches, my thoughts wander back to what we had, and my fears about the future creep in. But God is with me in this struggle, guiding me through my pain, my weaknesses, and my fears. He is teaching me to trust, to release, and to find peace in His plan.
Knowing It Was the Right Decision
There were moments when I questioned myself. What if I made a mistake? What if I never find someone else who understands me the way she did? What if being alone is worse than staying in something uncertain?
But deep in my heart, I know the truth. We didn’t share the same long-term vision. We had love, but love alone isn’t always enough. A healthy, lasting relationship needs alignment—values, direction, and a shared understanding of the future. No matter how much I cared for her, I knew we weren’t walking the same path.
God gently reminded me that obedience to His plan is more important than holding on to what feels comfortable. He calls us to trust Him, even when it hurts.
Struggles of the Heart and Flesh
Letting go is not just about the heart—it’s also about the mind and body. My thoughts wander back to her. I miss her touch, her laughter, the moments of closeness we shared. Lust tries to pull me into longing for what I no longer have.
But I remind myself: Lust is not love. Lust is a craving for what was, a distraction from the deeper work God is doing in me. Every time temptation creeps in, I turn to prayer. I ask God to replace my desires with His peace. I remind myself that true love—the kind God wants for me—is built on trust, respect, and a shared journey toward Him.
Fear of the Unknown
I don’t know what my future holds. Will I find someone else? Will I be alone? Will I ever love this deeply again? These questions haunt me in the quiet moments.
But fear is not from God. Fear is my mind trying to control what only He can see. The more I worry about the future, the less I trust in His timing. So I surrender.
I surrender my doubts.
I surrender my loneliness.
I surrender my need for answers.
God knows the desires of my heart. He knows what is best for me. My job is to trust, to walk forward, and to believe that His plan is better than anything I could create for myself.
Praying for Her Healing and Peace
Just because we are no longer together doesn’t mean I stop loving her. I still want the best for her. I still pray for her happiness, her healing, and her own journey with God.
I ask God to bless her, to guide her, and to fill her life with love and purpose. I release her into His hands, trusting that He will lead her exactly where she is meant to be.
Love doesn’t have to end just because a relationship does. Love can transform into a prayer, a wish for someone’s good, a quiet hope that they will find their way.
How Do I Release and Trust?
Some days I feel strong. Other days I feel weak. Some days I believe fully in God’s plan. Other days I just want to pick up the phone and hear her voice.
But faith is not about feelings—it’s about trust. I trust that if I keep turning to God, He will keep strengthening me.
Here’s what helps me let go:
Daily Surrender – Every morning, I give my heartache to God. I ask Him to take my pain and replace it with His peace.
Prayer and Meditation – I spend time in quiet reflection, listening for His voice. I ask for guidance and trust that He will provide.
Focusing on the Present – Instead of dwelling on the past or fearing the future, I try to live in today. God is here with me now.
Leaning on My Support System – I share my struggles with trusted friends, mentors, and my faith community. I don’t carry this alone.
Serving Others – When I shift my focus from my own pain to helping others, I feel closer to God.
Finding Strength in Weakness
I feel weak, but I remember that God’s strength is made perfect in weakness. I don’t have to do this alone. He is holding me up, guiding my steps, and healing my heart, even when I don’t see it happening.
One day, I will look back on this time and see how God used it to shape me. One day, I will understand why this door had to close. One day, I will see the beauty in His plan.
For now, I will walk forward in faith. I will trust, release, and believe that God is leading me toward something greater than I could ever imagine.
I pray for your healing and that peace, purpose, gratitude and love may replace confusion, hurt, anger and bitterness . You gottawanna be free I love you travel well be safe enjoy the journey.
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