Taking One Small Step: How the 12 Steps and God Help Me Face New Challenges
- Sober AA Member
- Jun 8
- 3 min read
Life can be scary sometimes. There are days when I feel like I want to stay in my comfort zone and never try anything new. But I’ve learned through the 12 Steps and my relationship with God that growth happens when I take one small step toward something that scares me. And the best part is, I don’t have to do it alone. God is with me, and He has already given me what I need to face it.
The 12 Steps Showed Me How to Take Small Steps
When I first came to the 12 Steps, I was afraid. I didn’t know what to expect. I was scared to open up. I was scared to face my past. I was even scared to hope for a better future. But my sponsor and my home group told me something simple: “Take it one step at a time.”
That idea changed everything for me.
The 12 Steps don’t ask me to fix everything in one day. They don’t tell me I have to be perfect or have it all figured out. They show me how to take small, steady steps. Each step builds on the one before it. And every time I take a step, I learn a little more about myself, my Higher Power, and what I’m truly capable of.
God Is My Safe Place and My Launching Pad
Before recovery, I often felt lost and alone. But through the 12 Steps, I came to believe in a loving and powerful God. I learned that God isn’t far away or too busy for me. He is my safe place when life feels heavy. I can go to Him in prayer and feel His peace. He listens when I talk to Him, even if my words come out messy and broken.
But God is not just a shelter for when I’m scared, He’s also my launching pad. He pushes me out of my comfort zone because He knows what I’m capable of, even when I don’t. God equips me with courage, wisdom, and strength. He places people like my sponsor and home group in my life to encourage me. And He reminds me that I’m braver than I think.
Facing New Challenges with Courage and Faith
It’s not always easy to face new challenges. Sometimes I still hear that voice in my head that says, “You can’t do this. It’s too hard.” But now, I know I don’t have to listen to that voice.
When I take a small step toward something that scares me whether it’s speaking in a meeting, making amends, or trying something new I pause and pray:
“God, thank You for being both my safe place and my launching pad. Help me face new challenges with courage and faith.”
And you know what? It works. Even when my hands shake and my heart races, I feel God’s presence. I remember how far I’ve already come. I trust that He wouldn’t bring me this far just to leave me.
One Day, One Step, One Moment at a Time
The 12 Steps taught me to live one day at a time. I don’t have to climb the whole mountain today. I just need to take one step. Maybe that step is making a phone call. Maybe it’s being honest about how I feel. Maybe it’s trying something I’ve been too scared to do.
Each small step matters.
Every time I take one, I grow stronger. I get braver. I trust God more. And I realize that the things I was afraid of aren’t as big as I thought. I’m learning that courage isn’t about not being scared it’s about moving forward even when I am.
Equipped by God, Guided by the 12 Steps
Today, I’m grateful for the 12 Steps, my sponsor, my home group, and my loving God. They’ve given me the tools to face life, even the scary parts. They remind me that I’m not powerless. I have choices. And I have a Higher Power who loves me, equips me, and walks beside me.
So, if you’re scared today, it’s okay. Take one small step. Pray for courage. Lean on God. Talk to your sponsor. Go to a meeting. You’ll be amazed at how those small steps add up to a life you never thought was possible.
Because with God as my safe place and launching pad, and the 12 Steps as my guide, I’m learning to live a life of courage and faith — one step at a time.

It may hurt and it may cause confusion and not seem clear to you now as sometimes I doubt it myself that's called being human - i love you be happy please you gottawanna live free
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