Have you ever felt like you needed to shrink yourself to fit into a place that just didn't feel right anymore? Maybe it was a friendship, a club, or a habit that used to bring you joy but now feels uncomfortable. I used to feel this way a lot, until I learned some important lessons from God and Al-Anon.
It all started when I noticed that I was trying too hard to fit into a group of friends who didn't share my values. I found myself pretending to like things I didn't really enjoy and staying quiet when I disagreed with them. Deep down, I knew I was pretending to be someone I wasn't just to feel accepted.
Then, I remembered something I had learned in Sunday school: God made me unique and special just the way I am. I realized that I didn't need to change myself to fit in with people who didn't appreciate the real me. Instead, I needed to find friends who would love and accept me for who I truly am.
That's when I discovered Al-Anon, a support group for people affected by someone else's drinking. At Al-Anon meetings, I learned about the importance of setting boundaries and taking care of myself. I realized that staying in toxic relationships or situations was like trying to fit into clothes that were two sizes too small – uncomfortable and unhealthy.
With the help of God and Al-Anon, I started to let go of the need to shrink myself to fit into places I had outgrown. I began to surround myself with people who uplifted and supported me, and I focused on activities that brought me genuine joy.
It wasn't always easy. There were times when I felt lonely or uncertain, but I reminded myself that I was worth more than settling for less than I deserved. I found strength in prayer and in the wisdom shared by others in the Al-Anon community.
As time passed, I noticed a remarkable change in myself. I felt more confident and fulfilled than ever before. By embracing who I truly am and refusing to shrink to fit into places that no longer served me, I opened myself up to new opportunities and experiences.
Today, I am grateful for the lessons I learned from God and Al-Anon. They taught me that it's okay to outgrow people and situations, and that true happiness comes from being authentic and true to myself. So if you ever find yourself trying to shrink to fit into a place that no longer feels right, remember this: you are enough just as you are, and there are people and places out there that will celebrate the real you.
You gottawanna live, love and laugh let it go!
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