Life is a wonderful gift, but sometimes it's easy to get caught up in serious thoughts and negative feelings. It's important to enjoy life, let go of worries about what others are doing, and focus on being happy. In my journey, I found that God and Al-Anon were two incredible sources of support that helped me discover the answers to letting go of resentment and finding true freedom.
**Understanding Resentment**
Resentment is like carrying a heavy bag of anger and hurt. It can weigh you down and make it hard to be happy. For a long time, I held onto resentments, and they kept me from living a full and joyful life. But then, I discovered two powerful tools that helped me find freedom from resentment.
**God - A Source of Healing**
God, for me, became a source of comfort and healing. I learned that I could turn to God in times of trouble and talk about my feelings, even the ones I was ashamed of, like resentment. I realized that God's love was unconditional, and that included loving and helping me, no matter what I was struggling with.
Talking to God about my resentments was like opening a window in a stuffy room. It allowed fresh air to come in and helped me see things more clearly. I learned to forgive and let go of the past, which was a big step towards finding happiness.
**Al-Anon - A Supportive Community**
Al-Anon is a group of people who come together to support each other in dealing with the effects of someone else's drinking. While my situation might be different from addiction, Al-Anon taught me valuable lessons about letting go and moving forward.
In Al-Anon, I met people who understood my struggles. They helped me realize that I wasn't alone in my feelings of resentment and frustration. They also taught me the importance of taking care of myself and not letting other people's actions control my happiness.
**Letting Go and Being Happy**
With the help of God and Al-Anon, I learned the importance of letting go. Instead of holding onto my resentments and allowing them to control my life, I decided to release them. It was like setting down that heavy bag of anger and hurt that I had been carrying for so long.
As I let go of resentment, I discovered something wonderful – happiness. I found joy in simple things like spending time with loved ones, enjoying hobbies, and helping others. I learned that life is too important to be serious all the time and that being happy is a choice we can make. You gottawanna be happy.
**Conclusion**
Resentment can be a heavy burden that keeps us from enjoying life to the fullest. However, with the support of God and groups like Al-Anon, we can find the strength to let go and be free. I discovered that God's love and the understanding of others in Al-Anon were instrumental in helping me find answers and happiness. If you're struggling with resentment, consider exploring these resources for yourself. You might just find the freedom and happiness you've been searching for, and life will become a more enjoyable journey.
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